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A curated space for deep dives into BDSM and non-traditional sexuality. Here, you'll find valuable insights—from foundational knowledge to advanced topics—designed to help you better understand yourself, your desires, and how to practice safely.

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Open communication for a better sex life

1. Why communication is the key to an elevated "intimacy" Many couples face difficulties and are hesitant to open up about their preferences and desires, leading to their sex life becoming a mere "for...

Sep 19, 2025

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Mummification trong BDSM: Hướng Dẫn Chuyên Nghiệp

Mummification là gì? Mummification hay còn gọi là trò chơi xác ướp trong BDSM là một hình thức bondage toàn thân, trong đó người phục tùng (submissive) sẽ được quấn hoặc bọc kín cơ thể bằng các vật li...

Sep 18, 2025

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Kinks & Fetish

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Erotic Food Play - Culinary pleasures in the bedroom

What is food play? Food play is a form of play that is sensual in nature, which can be sexual or non-sexual, where food is used to stimulate the senses and enhance pleasure. According to Wikipedia, it...

Sep 17, 2025

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Maturity Means Knowing Yourself and Respecting Differences

Maturity Means Knowing Yourself and Respecting Differences People grow through lessons, experiences, and even life’s upheavals. Yet some never truly mature because they haven’t discovered who they are...

Sep 16, 2025

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Do men who enjoy anal play have to be gay or LGBT?

“I’m male and have a girlfriend. During sex I really enjoy exploring anal play or any actions that stimulate the anus. My girlfriend is also very enthusiastic about rimming or using her fingers inside...

Sep 14, 2025

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Do safewords & safe signals kill the mood? How to use non-verbal signals during play.

When it comes to safewords, I receive some interesting opinions and questions such as "how to use a safeword when blindfolded, gagged, and even handcuffed?"; "a safeword is like scripting beforehand, ...

Sep 9, 2025

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BDSM 101

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Misoneism – When “Hating the New” Becomes a Barrier to Exploring BDSM

Definition of Misoneism Misoneism (Vietnamese: chứng ghét cái mới) is a term used to describe: Definition: The tendency or attitude of resisting, fearing, or hating new things, changes, or innovations...

Sep 8, 2025

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Explain "abuse" and "BDSM"

Câu hỏi: "Hello sister! I work in the field of psychological therapy and I am currently working for a company. When othershared with me about sexual trends (about BDSM), I initially thought of psychol...

Sep 7, 2025

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BDSM – A Safe Space for Exploration and Connection

Have you ever heard of BDSM, but do you truly understand it? Is BDSM about abuse, manipulation, or exploiting others? If you want to gain a deeper understanding, here are a few things I’d like to shar...

Sep 5, 2025

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BDSM Community & Culture

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Developing the Slave Role in a D/s Relationship: A Journey of Self-Awareness, Communication, and Growth

In a D/s relationship, the role of a slave is far more than simple submission. It’s a continuous journey of self-discovery, open communication, and steady commitment to becoming the best version of yo...

Sep 4, 2025

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What You Need to Know About Flogging and Safe Techniques in BDSM

In the world of BDSM, flogging – also known as "whipping" – is one of the most popular and enticing forms of impact play. Not only does it provide physical pleasure, but flogging also evokes a deep co...

Aug 31, 2025

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BDSM 101

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Unsafe Sex: How Soon Should You Get Tested for STDs?

If you’ve just had unprotected sex, I understand the anxiety and unease you may feel. Instead of letting fear take over, give yourself a clear plan: know when to get tested, stay informed, and protect...

Aug 29, 2025

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