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Don't Just Watch "50 Shades": 3 Truly Engaging BDSM Movies You Didn't Know About

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Jul 24, 2026

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"Why didn't I resist at that time?" – Understanding Freeze Response, the freezing reaction that many victims have experienced

A reader shared their story with me. You were a victim of abusive behavior since middle school. What has troubled you for many years is not only what happened, but also a question that keeps repeating...

Jul 23, 2026

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BDSM 101

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Building a long-term Dom/Sub relationship – It's not just play, but a real connection

In the BDSM world, many start with intense play sessions, those enchanting moments of surrender. But when you want to go further, wanting a Dom/Sub relationship that is not only long-lasting but also ...

Jul 22, 2026

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"I have known about BDSM for over 10 years, and I have had many experiences, but perhaps I have not met the right one and do not know what is right."

"I have known about BDSM for over 10 years, and I have had many experiences, but perhaps I have not met the right one and do not know what is right." This is a statement I received from a client. At f...

Jul 22, 2026

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Attachment Styles: The Invisible Compass in Every Relationship

Before a person enters any relationship, whether it is a conventional love or a Dominant/submissive (D/s) dynamic, they carry with them an internal map formed from their early years. This map determin...

Jul 21, 2026

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Why do I love myself more the more I play BDSM?

Many people exploring BDSM often ask: why do many feel they love themselves more than ever the deeper they dive into BDSM? This is not just a story about kink, but a journey of healing, empowerment, a...

Jul 20, 2026

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Health & Physical Well-being

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What is a Sissy? How to know if you are a Sissy?

Recently I received a very interesting question from a member of the community: "Has the Mistress ever trained a sissy? How does the Mistress know that person is a sissy and help them realize they are...

Jul 19, 2026

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Early signs that you may be interested in BDSM

In the world of BDSM, many people begin their journey without even realizing it. They just feel a little curious, a strange sensation when reading a story, watching a movie, or in private moments. As ...

Jul 16, 2026

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Consent exists not only in BDSM

Consent exists not only in BDSM When it comes to Consent, many people will immediately think of BDSM or sex. This is not wrong, but it is also not complete. In fact, Consent is a communication skill a...

Jul 14, 2026

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BDSM Community & Culture

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The most dangerous Red Flag is not jealousy. It is when someone does not respect your Consent and boundaries.

How do we usually identify Red Flags? When it comes to Red Flags in a relationship, most people will immediately think of fairly obvious signs like excessive jealousy, control, manipulation, anger, or...

Jul 14, 2026

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You are not stuck in your relationship. You are stuck in patterns that you have not recognized.

Have you ever felt like everything keeps repeating? You feel anxious, overthink, frustrated, unheard, or no longer happy in your relationship. You realize something is wrong, but then everything conti...

Jul 10, 2026

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Balancing love and BDSM in a D/s relationship

One of the most common questions I receive from those new to BDSM is: "If there is an element of power and submission in the relationship, does love still exist?" Or sometimes the opposite question: "...

Jul 4, 2026

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