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Nerve Injuries in Shibari – Understanding Them for Safer Rope Play

Nerve Injuries in Shibari – Understanding Them for Safer Rope Play

Introduction Shibari is an art form that connects rope, the body, and emotions. Although known for its aesthetic beauty and delicate connection, Shibari is also a practice that is highly technical and...

Oct 11, 2025

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Takate Kote – Thế trói nền tảng không thể thiếu trong Shibari

Takate Kote – Thế trói nền tảng không thể thiếu trong Shibari

Trong thế giới Shibari - nghệ thuật trói dây của Nhật Bản, có một tư thế gần như ai cũng từng nghe đến hoặc nhìn thấy: Takate Kote, hay còn gọi là TK hoặc Box Tie. Đây không chỉ là một thế trói phổ bi...

Oct 10, 2025

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[Video] Hishi Karada (菱身体) Tutorial: The Art of Diamond Body Harness in Shibari

[Video] Hishi Karada (菱身体) Tutorial: The Art of Diamond Body Harness in Shibari

Hishi (菱) means diamond/rhombus. Karada (身体) means body. When combined, Hishi Karada can be understood as "a diamond network on the body." This type of bondage originates from Shibari/Kinbaku in Japan...

Sep 24, 2025

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Do safewords & safe signals kill the mood? How to use non-verbal signals during play.

Do safewords & safe signals kill the mood? How to use non-verbal signals during play.

When it comes to safewords, I receive some interesting opinions and questions such as "how to use a safeword when blindfolded, gagged, and even handcuffed?"; "a safeword is like scripting beforehand, ...

Sep 9, 2025

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What Is a Gag? Types of Gags and How to Play Safely

What Is a Gag? Types of Gags and How to Play Safely

In BDSM, a gag is one of the most iconic tools. With just a gag, speech is stripped away, helplessness increases, and control belongs entirely to the Dom. For the Sub, a gag is a sign of submission an...

Sep 7, 2025

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What You Need to Know About Flogging and Safe Techniques in BDSM

What You Need to Know About Flogging and Safe Techniques in BDSM

In the world of BDSM, flogging – also known as "whipping" – is one of the most popular and enticing forms of impact play. Not only does it provide physical pleasure, but flogging also evokes a deep co...

Aug 31, 2025

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A Complete Guide to Nipple Clamps in BDSM

A Complete Guide to Nipple Clamps in BDSM

In the world of BDSM, there are many types of tools that enhance pleasure and expand sexual experiences. One of the simplest and most popular toys is the nipple clamp. Although small, the impact they ...

Aug 26, 2025

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FAQ: Tất Tần Tật Về Khóa Dương Vật Chastity Cage

FAQ: Tất Tần Tật Về Khóa Dương Vật Chastity Cage

The chastity cage is not just a unique BDSM toy, but also a symbol of control, submission, and repressed desire. More and more couples and BDSM players are curious about this experience – from the fee...

Aug 23, 2025

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Secrets to Choosing Non-Burning Candles for Safe Wax Play

Secrets to Choosing Non-Burning Candles for Safe Wax Play

Have you ever heard of wax play – the little candle wax game in BDSM? If not, now is the time to explore a fascinating new world where non-burning candles become the "secret weapon" of those who are p...

Aug 23, 2025

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Exploring Sensation Play: The Art of Elevating Sensations in Intimacy

Exploring Sensation Play: The Art of Elevating Sensations in Intimacy

In a romantic relationship, deep connection comes not only from emotions but also from new and unique experiences. One way to refresh and enhance the bond is through sensation play – an art of explori...

Aug 20, 2025

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Wax Play: The Art of Candle Play in BDSM

Wax Play: The Art of Candle Play in BDSM

Wax Play – the art of candle play in BDSM – offers a unique blend of warmth, mild pain, and subtle pleasure. More than just a form of sensation play, it is also an aesthetic experience, where the body...

Aug 19, 2025

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Kéo cắt dây và kiểm tra dụng cụ: Chiếc chìa khóa sống còn trong Shibari

Kéo cắt dây và kiểm tra dụng cụ: Chiếc chìa khóa sống còn trong Shibari

Shibari – nghệ thuật trói Nhật Bản – không chỉ là sự đan xen của dây và cơ thể, mà còn là sự giao thoa giữa niềm tin, cảm xúc và trách nhiệm. Trong không gian ấy, sự an toàn không bao giờ là điều có t...

Aug 6, 2025

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